Patsy

by Dena

Patsy has always credited her mother as one of the greatest influences of her life. She was the baby of the family of twelve children and learned at an early age the ethics of hard work.  This has taken her through nursing school, raising five children, and now owning a  cattle ranch in Texas with her husband. Her grandmother came from the Cherokee reservation in Oklahoma, something that is evident when you meet her. RVW 130a

Patsy has a heart for nature and animals that I haven’t seen in anyone other than my mother. Patsy will stay up all night to help deliver a calf, kittens or puppies.  Her connection to animals and nature is uncanny. I would say it is the Indian heritage but we have the same background and I can’t deliver the mail from the mailbox to the kitchen counter all in one piece.

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RVW 124aI asked how she remembers meals in a home where there so many children. She said that favorite memory of her mother’s cooking is the Sunday dinner. Her mother would have one of the older kids kill a chicken and clean it. (this only reinforces my theory that the oldest kids are basically slaves) She would then double batter it, which means flouring it, dipping it in an egg and milk mixture, and then flouring it again before frying it.  The part I like in the recipe? Season to taste. To top off the meal would be mashed potatoes, green beans, and gravy. Do I have to mention that the gravy was not from a package or the potatoes were the ones she peeled and mashed by hand?

Patsy knows that the best way to bring people together is food. She is active her neighboring church where she has organized many dinners, birthday parties, ladies Christmas parties, and even a caroling with hot cocoa. She always ensures that there is something for everyone.  Although well known for her sugar free desserts, she has a natural affinity for cooking and everything comes out with an amazing taste. While she prepares dishes of all types, both old style and modern day, these are some that I associate with her.
Hot Water Corn Bread
  • 5 c. Cornmeal
  • 2 c. flour
  • 1 c. sugar
  • hot water
  • peanut oil

Combine the cornmeal, flour, and sugar; add just enough hot water to mix well. to a paste.  Make small round balls, then roll them out lengthwise. Drop them into the heated oil. Fry to desired crispness.

These are the recipes that are hard for me. To a paste? I give up and get some Jiffy.Gina left a note that said she remembers her mother saying, “Stir it til it feels right.” That is the kind of cooking that we are looking for here.

4 Comments to “Patsy”

  1. great story….keep ‘em coming!!!!!!!!!!

  2. Dena this is wonderful. I loved the story, but the recipe brought back great memories of my grandmother. She made the best hot water cornbread and she knew that I loved it. Every time she made it, she made some for me. I often wish I had some of her homemade hot water cornbread. I guess I didn’t appreciate it enough when I was younger and she was still alive. Thanks for the memory.

    Robbi

  3. I make that cornbread too. My husband loves it. My grandma always had some on the stove, whether it was fresh or left overs, it was always good. Congrats Pattsy. Look after Nel (my mom) for me. Thanks. I love the sites work!!!!

  4. GREAT STORY! MRS . PATSY IS AN AMAZING PERSON AND I AM GLAD TO KNOW HER!