Archive for December, 2009

December 31st, 2009

Redwater Diner

by Dena

When I was little, we used to go see my great-grandmother every weekend. She lived in a neighboring town about 35 miles away, which was on the other side of the earth as far as my parents were concerned. Anyway, we always stopped at this little diner sometime during the trip. It isn’t there anymore but I do like to find out of the way diners like this and let other people know that sometimes the best meals can be found where you least expect it.

One example is the Redwater Diner in Redwater, Texas. Now, there isn’t much to be found in Redwater. There is a nice school, a few small stores, and a popular gymastics arena. In fact, taking my daughter to gymnastics was the reason for my very first stop at the Diner.

We decided  last night to go back and see if we could get a decent meal.

RVW 001There weren’t a lot of people dining in, but the drive through was busy the whole time we were there.

RVW 003My daughter and husband are both chicken fried steak fanatics.

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RVW 005In an effort to be healthy, he a salad as a side.

RVW 007I got the chef salad and it was more than I could eat. In fact, they both tried to finish it out.

Everyone was happy with their meal and the best part? They are the most reasonably priced place around. My chef salad was $4.50. Yes. It was. All together, with drinks and everything, our bill was $20. Anyone who knows me knows that I am all about getting the most for my money. I certainly think we did tonight.

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December 29th, 2009

Very Superstitious

by LanaJoy

Every year of my life that I can remember, I HAD to have black eyed peas on New Year’s day.   Now, why is it that my mother insists on this tradition?  I have no clue whatsoever.  Apparently it has something to do with bad luck.  Somehow, someway, if I don’t ingest black eyed peas on January 1st, some terrible something will befall me.  Lucky for me, I just so happen to love black eyed peas, and Mama always makes them with some deliciously unhealthy hunk of meat, and I always like to eat them with a piece of onion, but that’s just me.

But thinking about Mama’s superstition about the peas, it got me to thinking about other things she and women of her generation had a superstition about.  I remember vividly when my oldest niece was born and my mother was horribly paranoid about our cats being near the baby.  When I asked my mother why she was so afraid she said it was because the cat would “suck the breath out of her.”  I wanted to know how, since the cat’s mouth didn’t seem designed for such a task and Mama answered it the way she and many other mothers always do with the standard, “it just does!”

Only God could save you if you broke a mirror, walked under a ladder, or opened an umbrella in the house around Mama or our grandmother.  I always thought this superstition thing was confined to the two of them until I started meeting other people’s mama’s and heard all sorts of things such as the whole black cat across the road, don’t tickle a baby’s feet or it will stutter, and don’t let a baby under a year old look in the mirror.  These all seem ridiculous by today’s standard of common sense, but I suppose for them it was a way to feel like they had some control over their own destiny, and that magical thing called luck.   I guess it’s really not any sillier than buying a lotto ticket or taking you chances with online matchmaking for that matter.

Well,  one thing that doesn’t require luck, just a little bit of skill, is this black eyed pea recipe.  This is how Mama does hers, and I hope it brings you some luck this new year.

  • 2 lbs of black eyed peas (may be fresh or frozen)
  • 1/2 pound of bacon (you could also use a smoked turkey wing)
  • 2 tsp of salt (more or less to taste)
  • 1/2 tsp of black pepper (again to your taste)

Fry the 1/2 lb of bacon and crumble into medium size pieces.  In a large pot, fill it half way with water, then add your salt and pepper.  Add peas and cook on medium heat for 30 minutes.  Then lower the heat and cook the peas until tender.  When the peas are tender and the water is mostly absorbed, the peas are ready.  When they are almost ready, gently fold in the bacon.  Since this recipe doesn’t have exact water measurements, if you feel like you need more or less water according to your pot, don’t be afraid to add and take away as needed.  If you read this blog regularly you will find that most of Mama’s recipes aren’t really exact in measurement because she has been doing it for so long it’s pretty much second nature.

December 27th, 2009

Christmas, The Grand Finale

by Dena

The Saturday after Christmas will find one of the hottest Christmas parties in town if you live near Dallas.   Each year, my brother-in-law and sister-in-law and her sister host a Christmas dinner for her family and anyone else who wants to come.   One year may find almost eighty people laughing and eating at their house.   Years like this one found a few less, more like 40 or so.   Maybe 50 as some were coming in late.

Yesterday I sat at one the tables as my Diana, my sister-in-law’s sister, told how this is all she ever knew, growing up in a large family. Others who married into the family told how it was intimidating the first time they ever came to such a large family dinner.   I guess because Diana and Joyce (sister-in-law) have always done it this way, it seems to come so easily. I’m afraid that if I fed even 25 people it would be more like sloppy joes and chips on a paper towel.   Not them.  They are amazing in not only the cooking and decorating, but the fact that they stay so calm and happy the entire time.

RVW 001They began with a new theme this year. “Let It Snow” was everwhere and the tree was kid and dog friendly, no hooks of any kind.

RVW 006The ladies work and work to get everything ready. Everyone brings something and it all fits together to make a perfect meal.

RVW 011aDi, checking the status of the pots and pans.

RVW 012aJoyce doing the same. Both will probably kill me for posting these pictures. I didn’t warn them and snapped away as they slaved over a hot stove. Can I remind you that neither complain or get snippy?   It is like a Norman Rockwell Christmas to me. We fight when we drive thru Taco Bell, let alone cook!

Aside from the food, the best part is the fellowship of family.   This truly is a wonderful family at heart.   They laugh and have fun the entire time.   There is constant conversation and laughter, and the sound of all the kids playing together is something that is nonstop during this party.  When I first married into this family I felt like somewhat of an intrusion just by way of not really knowing what to expect, but they always made me feel welcome.  Now it’s something I look forward to every year.

RVW 004aWe tag along with my sweet little mother in law. She had all of her boys together this weekend, a gift for her that she doesn’t get very often.

I learn a lot from these women. They are beautiful both inside and out. I don’t know where I could ever find such kind and giving hearts. While the food is excellent, they fun and fellowship are what makes the day special.

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As I sat and typed this I had tears in my eyes thinking of last Christmas and those who are in heaven for this Christmas.  They were missed but enjoyed with stories of old and even recipe discussions.   New life fills the house each year, whether by marriage or birth. Either way, anyone is lucky to be a part of it.

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December 25th, 2009

Trimmed in Red Velvet

by Dena

This Christmas has been wonderful so far. We’ve had the typical ups and downs, mostly regarding weather and travel. My parter in Red Velvet Crime is stranded in Little Rock but will hopefully be on her way here soon. It really isn’t Christmas if some are missing.

Our Christmas got underway last night, with a small family dinner and some baking.

RVW 011I made the crockpot dressing.

RVW 017My husband cooked a pot of beans.

RVW 009Little Boo made a cake for Santa.  We cut it short and used a mix. I had planned to make mother’s recipe from scratch but since I have had the plague, we went the easy route. Santa likes it just as well.

RVW 020She adds her own special touches.

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We left this out for Santa last night and I guess he enjoyed it. His plate was clean except for a few crumbs. He even drank the milk. Surprising since I have it on good word that he is lactose intolerant.

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RVW 027abcThe main thing I can say about our Christmas Eve?

RVW 008This morning was an early venture into packages, gifts, and coffee. We had planned to be up at 6:00, mainly just because I like to go by a schedule. I overslept a few minutes but it was all good. I had breakfast already ready to go in the oven. Our favorite casserole is so easy.

Easy Breakfast Casserole

  • 1 lb sausage
  • 1 pkg cream cheese
  • 1 can crescent rolls

Brown sausage and drain, crumbled. Add cream cheese and stir until it is melted. Pour into a baking dish and top with crescent rolls all spread out. Bake at 400° for 15 minutes.

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We also have non-alcoholic mimosas. I mix the sparkling grape juice with orange juice. Not until we branch out to the extended family do I need the real stuff.

Christmas 010We wish everyone a very Merry Christmas today. Enjoy your family, your gifts, and some good food. We have big plans for the upcoming year and hope that some of you are involved!

Again, Merry Christmas from Red Velvet Wisdom.

December 24th, 2009

Crockpot Christmas Eve

by Dena

The anticipation of Christmas is building here at our home! Our daughter came and got in bed with us this morning as a trial run for waking us to tell us Santa was here.

I am doing some easy baking this year. One of my favorite recipes is caramel pie. My great-grandmother used to make caramel pies by browning sugar in a cast iron skillet for an hour or so, stirring the whole time. Me? I have a much easier recipe. I tried to get pictures but one of my crusts crumbled into a million little pieces, and I was left with no photos.

  • 2 cans of sweetened condensed milk (Eagle Brand style)
  • Pie crust ( I like to use a graham cracker)
  • Whipped topping

I take my crock pot and spray it with a non-stick spray. I pour in the two cans of sweetened milk. That is it. I stir it every hour or so and when it turns to thick brown caramel, I pour it into a pie crust. I chill it overnight and then top it with topping before serving. Usually, a pie takes4-6 hours to cook. It really depends on your crock pot. You will know it is ready when it is thick and dark like caramel. Not bad when you are spending a day cooking or cleaning for company. I made two pies yesterday afteroon while cleaning house.

Today I am making crockpot cornbread dressing. I’m not a crockpot freak. Heaven knows I hate cleaning anything I can’t toss in the dishwasher. This year is going to be pretty laid back as far as food goes at our house. We are doing a meal tonight, just close family, with a breakfast in the morning. That is my favorite part.

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December 22nd, 2009

Party Time!

by Dena

I need look no further than a local church gathering to find some of the best cooks in my area  . The decision to join that church was sealed once my husband attended a fellowship there.   The women go out of their way to bring desserts and foods made from scratch. Often you hear them trading recipes and talking about where to find certain ingredients.   I learned quickly that my burrito casserole (pkg of frozen burritos covered in a can of chili, topped with cheese) doesn’t really fit in here.

Each year we have a Christmas party and the foods that are brought are the best of the best.   This year was no exception.

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I really didn’t know where to start.

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RVW 024These ladies put lots of love into everything they do. Everything looks as good as it tastes. These women are inspiring to me in every area, not just cooking.

RVW 029As we sat around the table and ate, we again discussed recipes. My Texas Caviar dish had led to a revelation of an old time recipe of fried black eyed pea patties.   Some had heard of this, but most had not and listened to the story behind the recipe.  To be honest, I”m not anxious to make it.   It is another of those things that sprang from hard times and having to make leftovers seem appealing.  That, and I’m just not that into black eyed peas.

  • 2 cans black eyed peas or a pot of cooked peas
  • onion, chopped
  • egg
  • flour
  • salt
  • pepper
  • a little cornmeal

Stir this together well and form patties, dredging the patty a  flour and cornmeal mixture. Fry in hot grease for a few minutes. Drain on paper towels.

I came home and looked this recipe up online and found several for a fancy black eyed pea cake with a fancy sauce. This is more of the squash patty or potato patty type. Nothing really delicate and ornate about it. Just a recipe from years and years ago when there were plenty of peas to eat and not much of anything else.

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